At some point in a females life some male figure messes them up. A father, a brother, a lover, a friend, an enemy, a crush, a movie star, a neighbor. Some guy comes along one day and tells them they are ugly or fat or stupid or something hurtful. Some guy tells them they love them. That they are the only one they will ever love, forever. And that she is the most wonderful and beautiful thing in the world. That she is perfect for him and that he will never hurt her or leave her. That she is his only love. Then, she finds out that these are lies. He might leave her, hurt her, push her away, insult her, deceive her. Some guy comes along and tells her she isn't worth it, and she never will be. Some guy tells her she isn't enough. Some guy tells her that she is weird. Some guy tells her something, but means something else. Some guy misguides her. Some guy leads her into the dark. Some guy does something to her, something that hurts. I can't list everything, because honestly? If I did I think someone would end up crying at how many things apply to them. So, basically, males hurt females, and yeah we hurt men too, but we are in truth more fragile. Now look at that list and see how man things apply to you and realize, boys are honestly not worth the time and tears that we give them, cause you want the hard core truth? They don't do it for us, and they don't take that much thought into it. There are only a few who are worth the tears and pain, only a few who are, but look girls, if you are writing and posting posts about how he hurt you. How it's not fair. How you are hurt. How you are crying. How you can't get him out of your mind, just realize that if he isn't doing the same for you, he can't be worth it. He isn't and never will be. I am not trying to take away hope, rather than helping you move onto someone out there who actually gives you the thought and time you deserve. You have heard this over and over again for a reason, that is because it is true. He has moved on, he has given up, so common, you have dignity, move on. Show yourself that you are strong, and you can be happy, because one day, you will see. You will be happy. So look, you can take this and ignore it, staying sad and sulked, you can take this in hope that it helps someone out there, or you can read this and take in what it says and try, just try to be happy. Do something for you, not for the guy who hurt you. My choice? Re-blog, believe, try.

The greatest irony of life is loving the right person at the wrong time, having the wrong person when the time is right and finding out you love someone after that person walks out from your life and sometimes you think you’re already over a person but when you see them smile at you, you’ll suddenly realize that you’re just pretending to be over them just to ease the pain of knowing that they will never be yours again. For some, they think that letting go is one way of expressing how much you love the person. Most relationships tend to fail not because the absence of love; love is always present. It’s just the one was being loved too much and the other was being loved too little as we all know that the heart is the center of the body but it beats on the left. Maybe that’s the reason why the heart is not always right. Most often we fall in love with the person we think we love only to discover that for them, we are just for past times, while the one who truly loves us remains either a friend or a stranger. Here’s a piece of advice: let go when you’re hurting too much, give up when love isn’t enough and move on when things are not like before. There is someone out there who will love you even more, surely then, you will know true love.

Why is it so hard to find someone who cares about you when it's easy enough to find someone who looks down on you?
Life is totally unpredictable...

You don’t know what goes on in anyone’s life but your own. And when you mess with one part of a person’s life, you’re not messing with just that part. Unfortunately, you can’t be that precise and selective. When you mess with one part of a person’s life, you’re messing with their entire life.